Today’s episode features Marea Goodman, a licensed midwife, parent, co-author of the book Baby Making for Everybody (affiliate link), and founder of PregnantTogether, a virtual community supporting queer and solo parents from preconception through parenting. Marea’s family grew through a non-traditional and “growthful” journey that involved co-parenting, a romantic relationship developing unexpectedly, the use of a known donor, having a child of their own (after a chemical pregnancy and then successful IUI), and eventually navigating a separation. They described the fertility process, alongside their experiences of pregnancy, birth, and separation, as deeply “humbling” and realized that if the process was this overwhelming to them as an “quote unquote expert” with training, then they could only imagine how it felt for others.
This feeling of overwhelm and the observation that people often do not see the narratives of their non-traditional families in the mainstream world, led to the creation of the PregnantTogether community. By creating a space for LGBTQ+ individuals and solo parents, Marea hopes to provide a space where the unique stories of queer folks and solo parents are normalized and people can find the tailored support and resources that they wished they had had on their journey. PregnantTogether is excited to host the first virtual queer family building conference called “Together” this November 4th and 5th. Our conversation highlights the importance of normalizing diverse family structures, addressing the grief and disappointment inherent in the process, and connecting people to help smooth out the bumps of the family-building challenges.
Marea Goodman (they/them) is a licensed midwife and the founder of PregnantTogether, a virtual community supporting queer and solo parents from preconception through parenting. Passionate about creating spaces of connection and support, Marea is dedicated to ensuring that LGBTQ+ individuals and solo parents have access to the information and care they need to grow their families with confidence.
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