In this episode of the AllPaths Podcast, we are joined by Rachel Spekman, a therapist and career strategist from Massachusetts. Rachel shares her arduous three-year journey to motherhood, which involved multiple fertility treatments, multiple losses, and navigating the healthcare system as a same-sex, mixed-race couple. Eventually she had two successful frozen embryo transfers, leading to the birth of her seven-year-old son and three-year-old daughter. Rachel’s story highlights the emotional and physical toll of family building, the “naive innocence” often felt at the start of fertility treatments, and the importance of maintaining a sense of humor through the many “hoops” and administrative hurdles of the process. Rachel also touches upon the specific nuances of her family’s story, including the challenges of finding diverse donor pools and the unexpected joy of connecting with her children’s “diblings” (donor siblings).
Beyond her path to parenthood, Rachel discusses how these life-altering experiences served as a catalyst for a complete career transformation, prompted in part by a lack of support from her corporate employer when she experienced complications requiring bedrest during her first pregnancy which unfortunately ended in a loss. Today, Rachel uses her personal experiences with grief and professional pivoting to help others navigate major life transitions. She emphasizes the importance of building a “board of advisors” for emotional support, sharing how a curated support system of medical professionals, therapists, and community members helped her navigate isolation and grief and encouraging anyone going through an identity transformation to embrace the philosophy that “grief shared is grief divided.”
After 15 years marketing brands and 10 years in helping founders, Rachel Spekman’s world came to a full standstill when she found hers on a three-year fertility journey. When she finally did have her first child, she knew something internally had shifted and ultimately left the corporate world to become a therapist. Rachel is now a career strategist who helps high-performing professionals trade high-paid, soul sucking careers for soul-aligned work that still makes them a great income and a therapist who supports people through identity transformations. Connect with Rachel at http://www.rachelspekman.com.
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